Frequently Asked Questions
Who attends an Intimacy Retreat?
Couples of all ages attend and enjoy Intimacy Retreats. Typically, their relationship is relatively good, committed and loving. There may or may not be some sexual concerns or other typical relationship challenges. They may just want a weekend away from the kids, they may hope to deepen their intimate connection, enhance or reignite their love life, or just have a fun vacation together. One or both may be interested in Tantra. If you are not sure if an Intimacy Retreat is a good idea at this time, please feel free to contact us. We will be happy to discuss your participation in more depth. See comments from past participants.
Is there public nudity?
No. You return to your private lodging for delightful and sexually intimate "home-play" assignments.
What lodging is available and how do we make arrangements?
See Lodging Info.
Are meals included? No.
Are gift certificates available? Yes!
What is the weekend schedule?
Friday: 7:00 pm - 9:45 pm
Saturday: 10 am - 4 pm (with a lunch break)
Saturday: 8:30 pm - 10:45 pm
Sunday: 11 am - 1:45 pm
Between sessions, you return to your hotel for private "home-play" assignments. On Sundays on Siesta Key Beach, there is a dynamic "drum & dance" circle that starts an hour before sunset. If your schedule permits, staying for this event is a rewarding experience. You can also schedule Couples' Massage Training, before or after the workshop.
Do you teach massage?
Erotic massage is taught at workshops; couples return to their private rooms to practice. Sensual massage lessons are given by Diana Daffner as a separate and wonderful couple's experience. Diana began her massage career at Esalen Massage in Big Sur, CA. The fee for Couples Massage Training is $280/couple for a 2 1/2 hour experience including private outdoor hot tub (optional). Consider adding this to your Intimacy Retreat on Siesta Key. Reiki treatments and attunements are also available. To make arrangements, contact us.
Can singles attend?
Intimacy Retreats are for couples only. However, there are occasional seminars that do not require a partner. If you are on our newsletter list you will be notified of all events.
Can same-sex couples attend?
Although we (Richard & Diana Daffner) designed the workshops based on our own man-woman relationship, same-sex partners are welcome. Both male and female sexuality are addressed. NOTE: Diana has led an Intimacy Retreat for lesbian couples and will likely do so again. Please contact us if you might be interested.
Will you hold an Intimacy Retreat in our area?
If you can organize a group of at least four couples who would like to experience this type of weekend, please contact us.
Do you offer private retreats?
Yes, in Siesta Key (Sarasota), Florida. You can schedule two to five sessions over a one to three day period, or create as short or as long a retreat as you like. Each session is typically 2 - 21/2 hrs and the fee is $325/session. (If we travel to your location, additional charges apply.)
Do you offer marriage counseling?
Coaching sessions with Diana are available.
Who attends an Intimacy Retreat?
Couples of all ages attend and enjoy Intimacy Retreats. Typically, their relationship is relatively good, committed and loving. There may or may not be some sexual concerns or other typical relationship challenges. They may just want a weekend away from the kids, they may hope to deepen their intimate connection, enhance or reignite their love life, or just have a fun vacation together. One or both may be interested in Tantra. If you are not sure if an Intimacy Retreat is a good idea at this time, please feel free to contact us. We will be happy to discuss your participation in more depth. See comments from past participants.
Is there public nudity?
No. You return to your private lodging for delightful and sexually intimate "home-play" assignments.
What lodging is available and how do we make arrangements?
See Lodging Info.
Are meals included? No.
Are gift certificates available? Yes!
What is the weekend schedule?
Friday: 7:00 pm - 9:45 pm
Saturday: 10 am - 4 pm (with a lunch break)
Saturday: 8:30 pm - 10:45 pm
Sunday: 11 am - 1:45 pm
Between sessions, you return to your hotel for private "home-play" assignments. On Sundays on Siesta Key Beach, there is a dynamic "drum & dance" circle that starts an hour before sunset. If your schedule permits, staying for this event is a rewarding experience. You can also schedule Couples' Massage Training, before or after the workshop.
Do you teach massage?
Erotic massage is taught at workshops; couples return to their private rooms to practice. Sensual massage lessons are given by Diana Daffner as a separate and wonderful couple's experience. Diana began her massage career at Esalen Massage in Big Sur, CA. The fee for Couples Massage Training is $280/couple for a 2 1/2 hour experience including private outdoor hot tub (optional). Consider adding this to your Intimacy Retreat on Siesta Key. Reiki treatments and attunements are also available. To make arrangements, contact us.
Can singles attend?
Intimacy Retreats are for couples only. However, there are occasional seminars that do not require a partner. If you are on our newsletter list you will be notified of all events.
Can same-sex couples attend?
Although we (Richard & Diana Daffner) designed the workshops based on our own man-woman relationship, same-sex partners are welcome. Both male and female sexuality are addressed. NOTE: Diana has led an Intimacy Retreat for lesbian couples and will likely do so again. Please contact us if you might be interested.
Will you hold an Intimacy Retreat in our area?
If you can organize a group of at least four couples who would like to experience this type of weekend, please contact us.
Do you offer private retreats?
Yes, in Siesta Key (Sarasota), Florida. You can schedule two to five sessions over a one to three day period, or create as short or as long a retreat as you like. Each session is typically 2 - 21/2 hrs and the fee is $325/session. (If we travel to your location, additional charges apply.)
Do you offer marriage counseling?
Coaching sessions with Diana are available.